Positive Singles Review

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Positive Singles was founded in 2001 by Successful Match, a Silicon Valley firm. It’s a supportive community that inspires love and relationships for STD-positive singles. Not only is this a site for dating, but it’s also a space to meet new friends and a circle of confidants. Moreover, the site is a great resource for those who are newly diagnosed and not sure how to move forward with their lives.

This is the largest confidential herpes and STD online community and dating platform, with over 1.7 million members. This site claims to have over 60,000 success stories. Over 400 million people in the world have an STD, and over a quarter of them live in the United States. Therefore, the need for a strong, supportive, and informative community (romantic and platonic) is crucial.

Membership Statics

Total Members1,720,400
Members in the U.S.A.150,000
Monthly Conversations2,550,000
Active Weekly Members50,000

Gender Disparity


Age Ranges



The community here is open and honest, as is apparent on the blog, in the forums, and within individual profile pages. There are noticeably more men than women on the site. In terms of age ranges, 35-44-year-olds take the slim majority (30%), followed by 25-24-year-olds (29%). Only 4% of members are between the ages of 45 and 54, although 13% of the membership belongs to the 55+ group. In the middle of the road are 18-24-year-olds, at 24%.

Positive Singles has over 1,720,400 global members, with 150,000 of them in the U.S. Participants have been diagnosed with a range of diseases, including HIV/AIDS, herpes, syphilis, chlamydia, and hepatitis. Every month, there are over 2.5 million conversations taking place.

Creating A Profile

Registration is very simple. Start by entering your gender and who you’re looking for. You can sign up as an individual or as a couple, too. Next, enter your age and a valid email address. You’ll also have to agree to the service terms and privacy policy, but more on that later. From there, you can enter your first name, followed by a username and password. Your first name will remain private and invisible to other users.

Then, identify your zip code, height, ethnicity, relationship status, and diagnosis. After that, you can upload a profile picture for “20 times the views,” or skip to the next step. Give your profile a headline and a bio and you’re all set.

You can flesh out your profile now or later. It shouldn’t take more than 30 minutes to add your hobbies, interests, photos, and details about your lifestyle habits and match preferences. The more complete your profile is, the better chance you have of finding a suitable friend or romantic partner.

Using the Site

While only premium members can initiate a conversation, non-paying users can reply to messages they receive. They can also join the chat rooms on the site.

Positive Singles has an active blog with 20,000 new posts each month. While HIV/AIDS and STDs are a wide topic of conversation, people on this platform also talk about religious and spiritual beliefs, politics, social issues, health, as well as hobbies and interests. Even though members aren’t afraid to talk about controversial subjects, there is a sense of inclusivity on the site, and people aren’t out to hurt each other.

The Spark feature works like Tinder in that you can like someone’s profile picture or pass. Members can also see when you liked them on Spark. Like the blog, Spark is free to use.

A premium benefit is communicating one-on-one with an STD advisor who can answer your questions and point you towards health resources. Speaking of which, there is health and safety information, including a listing of STD care locations, available to all members.

Finding A Match

Positive Singles has extensive search filters, even for non-paying members. You can look for people based on geographic location, age range, religion, ethnicity, and much more. Premium users can search by membership status and they can find reverse matches.

When you visit someone’s profile, you’ll see their username, age, and location at the top of the page next to their photo. You can also see if they’re currently online and if they’re a premium member. Under their photo, you’ll have access to options such as “Message Now,” “Add to Favorites,” or “Send Free Wink.” You can even write personal notes about this bio for your records. Some users may have additional photos or a private album, and you can like or comment on their pictures.


The overall design and functionality are great. The color scheme is muted and everything is minimal and neatly organized. Positive Singles has a mobile app for iPhone and Android. 4.6 out of 5 stars on the Google Play Store and App Store. Includes all of the features that are on the desktop version minus the forums and health resources. Also, you can password-protect your profile on the app.

A help/FAQ section is available on the website. Members can contact customer service at 1-416-628-1072 or toll-free at 855-599-8811, or they can email support@positivesingles.com. The mailing address is Successful Match, Inc. 10-8707 Dufferin Street, Suite 160, Vaughan, Ontario L4J 0A6 Canada.


Members must be 18 years of age or older, and all users must sign the Service Agreement and Privacy Policy to validate their account. Positive Singles also asks members to verify their photos on the website to be sure of their identity. There is a Code of Conduct on the site, and personal details are encrypted for protection. Racism, violence, and other harmful stances and attitudes are prohibited, as are images that portray minors. Administrators are quick to suspend unverified or disruptive accounts. A great thing about this website is that it provides dating advice and hints for how to optimize your profile. There are also health and safety tips for online dating and friendships as well as living with an STD. Even though the Code of Conduct states that users should remain courteous and respectful in their messages and chat rooms, things can still get raunchy. This may not bother some people, but others may not like it.


As a free member, you have more options than you would on many other dating sites. You can view photos, send winks, own a private photo album, use the Spark feature, and comment on profiles. You can’t send initial messages, but you can respond to conversations started by another person. You can also read and edit the blog.

Positive Singles offers three options for premium membership A one-month subscription costs $29.95, while a three-month plan costs $59.95, or about $15.95 per month. The six-month plan costs $95.95, or around $19.95 per month. Each of these subscriptions has the same benefits.

Premium users can initiate a chat, use advanced search filters, see who favorited them, browse anonymously, access more privacy settings, and become featured members. They can also chat with an STD counselor one-on-one and get 24/7 phone service. According to the website, premium members get seen 20 times more often than standard users.

You can pay by debit/credit card, bank transfer, money order, or PayPal. Payments show up as “SUCCESSFULMATCH” on billing statements. Be aware that the one-month subscription automatically renews.

Private AlbumsYesYesYesYes
Search FiltersBasicAdvancedAdvancedAdvanced
Privacy SettingsBasicAdvancedAdvancedAdvanced
MessagingLimitedFull AccessFull AccessFull Access
STD CounselorNoYesYesYes


How do I block someone?

Go to that specific person’s profile and click the three dots on the right-hand side of the page. From there, you can choose to block or report that person.

How do I cancel my subscription?

Click on your user icon in the top-right corner of the page. Navigate to “Settings,” then click on “Membership” on the left-hand side. At the top of this page, you can click on “Disable Account.”

Does Positive Singles have a free trial?

No, at the moment, there aren’t any free trial offers.

Who owns Positive Singles?

SuccessfulMatch.com owns Positive Singles, along with several other dating sites such as BiCupid and SugarDaddyMeet.

What is a bonus premium membership?

This is when someone gets upgraded to a premium subscription for free, based on their actions on the site. For instance, they may share inspirational stories on the blog, promote or recommend Positive Singles on social media, or write about the site in a press release.

Does Positive Singles have a refund policy?

Not exactly, but the FAQ page states that you can contact customer support to work out an agreement. Also, there aren’t any extra fees for canceling a membership.